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General Micro-managing wife My wife likes to micro-manage everything at work and at home. As a result she often ends up doing a lot of the chores at home and even when it comes to taking care of our 4-year-old boy. While this is less work for me it also makes her very resentful. I am also worried of what message all of this is sending to our son. What should I do? - Johan

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Answered by Shebby Johan my man, put your hands on her shoulders, look her in the eyes and say “Babe, I love you but please let me share in the chores please.”

Follow her around the house and insist on completing whatever chore she starts! All this with your son perched on your shoulders! You will irritate her so much, she will give in to sharing chores and your son will feel the love!

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    Shebby Singh

    Shebby Singh is well known in Malaysia as a football analyst and pundit. But there is something else that he has a lot of experience in - parenting.

    Having been a dad for more than 20 years, he joins ParenThots to give his brand of "tough love" advice to parents.

    No side-stepping the issues or treading carefully here, Shebby tells it as it is. If he thinks a child needs a spanking, he'll tell you so. If he thinks you're spoiling your child, you'll know about it.